Women utilize an arsenal of weapons against their foe, the male. There are the laws, crying, the Bermuda triangle, gossip, violence, the Police, false reports, the kids and the list goes on. The tools all depend on what has stopped working. And because we as males do not think as a woman does, we do not see the onslaught until it is upon us.
It is a nice day and I am going to pick up my children. I arrive and knock at the door and no answer. I call on the cell phone and here the phone inside the house ring, no answer. I wait for thirty minutes at the house, and no one shows. I leave a note tacked to the door saying I was there to pick up the kids at this time and I left at this time.
The mother called about five hours later apologizing that the kids were so involved doing this or that, that she loss track of time. Most men would be OK, just don't let it happen again.
We are soft because we use to have sex with her and she must still love me. She would not cognitively try to keep me and my children separated. Why would she do this to my kids, shes the mother.
No she is testing the resolve of the opponent. When a woman separates from a man it is to reclaim and claim territory. Especially in todays feminist driven world, the breakup is a plan to gain resources, such as child support and alimony and be free from the constraints of the relationship, which means screwing whoever she wants. The set up is the utilization of all of the strings attached, such as kids, to cause brain fog and confusion so she can do whatever she wants and keep you off balance.
A disengaging from everything that seems right is a much better approach. By this, when she acts poorly, ignore her, document what happened either by video, audio or at the very least written with dates times and witnesses, and then take the necessary legal action immediately the next business day. She calls incessantly or stalks you on social media or in the real world, file a police report, get restraining orders on her.
You are not engaging in a fluffy pillow fight. This is a verbal bare knuckle brawl. Want to get dragged away to a jail cell because she decided to not allow a time out of your daughter to finish out in five minutes and call back and decided to push past you at the door and start rummaging through your things, so you remove her from your home, which is well with in your legal rights, so she scratches her legs, goes to the police and said you assaulted her, and you go to jail and have to spend hundreds of dollars getting through the legal mess. Meanwhile, because you have this case opened and restraining orders, she is free to bring all kinds of abuse on your kids unchecked.
Not saying I lived this, but rest assured others have and are living this and it is all because we, did not utilize administrative violence, which we can do through the courts. If I executed a full legal battle and sought to disrupt her first or at least more frequently than she did me, then the arrest and court problem would not have happened. I did not place a restraining order on her, even though there was more than enough evidence to do so. In this case, she would have been arrested as she showed up at my place.
Now, the documentation of all events needs to be done and it is work. From my experience, it is easier to fight battles with a notebook then to unravel the mess from memory. Handing a judge or the police a timestamped video showing the female in full color meltdown is something to behold. Vindication by submission of guilt and best yet, lying in court and lying to a police officer. Winning.
As men we want to not fight. We would rather walk away and stay away from harm. Women on the other hand have a propensity to gain the upper hand in a situation through any means necessary as the male is no longer the partner, but a resource.
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